My mother used to say, “Show me your friends and I’ll tell you who you are.” I hated that phrase when I was a kid, but the older I get, the more I realize that she was right.
The ancient scriptures actually noted this as well: bad company corrupts good character. In other words, you might be a person of good character, but if you’re hanging out with bad characters, you’re going to get corrupted over time.
When you spend enough time around certain people, you start to talk like them and think like them. You normalize what they normalize and aim for what they aim for. Not because you’re weak, but because you’re human... Read more